The Difference between Advice and Encouragement

Dedicated to God and Christ, without Whom this could not have been written

Most everyone today, with any awareness, who will take an honest look at both their lives and the world in general, will hopefully come to the conclusion that something is dreadfully wrong. So why, with our finest intentions, do our best laid plans of “mice and men” always seem to go wrong, and what is the source of this confusion and the solution to this dilemma.
This article focuses primarily on the marriage contract between God, Christ, man and woman, however it still applies to everyone on this prison-planet for the criminally-insane. You may ask how I can so easily say we are all criminally insane, with such conviction, it’s because contrary to what you might have been told, everything written in the Bible (the king James authorized version), and the correctly translated version of the Holy Koran, is Truth and because all three books say so.

Isaiah 42:6 I the "I AM" have called thee in Righteousness, and will hold thine hand, and will keep thee, and give thee for a Covenant of the people, for a Light to the Gentiles;
42:7 To open the blind eyes, to bring out the prisoners from this prison [planet], [and] them that sit in darkness out of the prison house.
Luke 9:55 But he turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what kind of spirit ye are of (Rev. 12:7-9; Matt. 8:22).
Revelation 12:4 And his tale (of lies - John 8:35) drew the third part of the "Stars" (ch. 9:1) of heaven (into his army), and did (cause them to be) cast to the Earth (for their treason against God): and the dragon stood before the woman which was ready to be delivered, for to devour her child as soon as it was born (Christ - second coming).
12:7 And there was war in heaven: Michael and his angels fought against the dragon (Lucifer); and the dragon fought and his angels,
12:8 And prevailed not; neither was their place found any more in heaven.
12:9 And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out to the earth, and his angels (you - Luke 9:55) were cast out with him (Matthew 25:41).
Matthew 25:41 Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into Everlasting Fire, prepared for the devil and his angels (YOU that do not DO God's Will):
Sura 83:5. On a Mighty Day,
83:6. A Day when (all) mankind will stand before the Lord of the Worlds?
83:7. Nay! Surely the record of the wicked is (preserved) in their Prison Record.
83:8. And what will explain to thee what Prison Record is?
83:9. (There is) a Register (fully) inscribed.

Now before you are convinced by your ego (really Satan, who is behind it and feeds it) to stop reading, because you think you are already good, please consider the following verse from the book of Isaiah.

Isaiah 64:6 But we are all as an unclean [thing], and all our righteousnesses [are] like filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our inequities, like the wind, have taken us away.

If mankind as a whole can’t see by now that this world is heading to its own destruction at our hand, of which each individual is a part, then we’re all truly insane; which appears to be the case for the majority, since conditions are constantly worsening and not getting better. Therefore it seems logical that if we can first become changed from within, for the better, to start to put the world right for God and Christ, then the world would immediately start to get better; but everyone has to do it, or the one bad apple will spoil the barrel.

So where did this all start, why haven’t we been able to get it right until now, and how do we all correct the situation, before it’s too late. To begin with we must go back to the Garden of Eden, specifically when God told Adam and Eve that they were allowed to eat from any tree there except one, the “tree” of the knowledge of good (Truth) and evil (lies).

Genesis 2:16 And the "I AM" God COMMANDED the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat:
2:17 But of the tree of the knowledge of good (Truth) and evil (lies), thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die (in confusion).

The “trees” He is speaking of were not all physical trees in that sense, but rather the source of ways and beliefs. In the Garden of Eden (Planet Earth) God wanted us to follow His Ways and Commands only, which lead to eternal Life at the foot of the Tree of Life, instead of Satan’s “tree” of the knowledge of good (Truth) and evil (lies), which leads to confusion, and eventually a fate worse than death on the Last Day, for disobeying God. So it seems logical that if we were all following God’s Ways, the world should be getting better, right; but it’s not and getting worse and more evil by the day. So what is the answer, and how do we turn this mess around, that is causing all of this evil, conflict and destruction in our lives?
In the simplest terms, it means getting right with God, through repentance and atonement. This means a much more serious act of repentance than just “opening your heart to Jesus”, and then going back to our same old destructive ways. It means a complete remaking of our character and ways, that can only be accomplished with God and Christ’s help and constant guidance. If we want to become Christ’s adopted children, then we need to learn to obey and serve Him only, just like He obeys and serves His Father in Heaven. It is the divine order of the Universe, so why are we not following it? An honest look at the world’s conditions proves we are not, or this would already be heaven on Earth.
What I believe God (Whom I prefer to call Father – Matthew 6:9) has shown me is that this subtle twisting of our beliefs by Satan, is the cause of all our confusion, conflict and eventual death on this planet. In our marital lives this has been brought about in many subtle ways, but primarily in the liberal modern-day belief that men and women are equal, a belief clearly unsupported by, and at odds with, Scripture. Father gave us His divine order of authority in the Bible, to keep us on the right path, with God as the head of Christ, Christ as the head of man and man as the head of woman. Listening to anything else only causes disharmony, conflict, resentment and eventual divorce (destruction) in our marriages, as divine justice for listening to Satan again. Satan’s divide and conquer.

1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and the head of Christ [is] God.

Since the source of this stems from believing the lie, that men and women are equal, when the Bible clearly states in Genesis 2:22, that the woman was created from man, as his helper NOT his equal, then how is the destruction wrought out in our daily lives, and what is the solution? In the Garden of Eden, when Eve had gone apart from Adam and started to believe the liar (Satan) over him, which is really over Christ and God through the man, since Adam had not yet believed the liar, the seed for the fall from grace was planted, which eventually led to them both being cast out. What the woman did was disobey the man, who told her not to eat from the forbidden “tree”. When she believed the liar (instead of only God through the man) and then came back to the man, thinking that she was right, and then through her advice, got the man to believe the lie also, she usurped God’s/Christ’s and the man’s authority, and the divine order of things. It’s been happening ever since and every day, everywhere on Earth for the last 6,000 years, and has been the cause of all of this chaos, conflict and death. The man too was wrong for loving the woman more than God, by believing the liar through her, thus breaking the first commandment and disobeying God.

1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in SILENCE with all subjection.
2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to USURP authority over the man, but TO BE IN SILENCE.

When a woman usurps a man’s God-given authority, by giving him her/Satan’s advice, she naturally creates disharmony and conflict in the relationship and marriage, because the man intuitively knows that it’s not right and becomes defensive and sadly, sometimes violent. Just as he knows the woman shouldn’t be giving him advice, and should obey him (Genesis 3:16), he also intuitively knows that he cannot rightfully give it to another man, Christ or God, because of his status in the divine order; rather only suggestions (facts and opinions) and encouragement. He also knows that each man has to work out his own destiny, as with himself. Furthermore when the woman gives advice, thereby usurping the man’s authority, she wrongly takes the place of Christ and God for the man, thereby preventing the man from learning his lessons of life, which he most certainly cannot learn from her, since it’s from the wrong “tree”. Whether the man takes her advice or not, the damage is already done, because either way if he fails, the woman says, “I told you so”, assuming her authority over the man; which is Satanic. God and Christ are the only ones man can learn his spiritual lessons from, if he does not learn from Them and continues to listen to the woman, he will repeat the same mistake over and over again. Hence the confusion and conflict in the world today, which is leading to WWIII, Armageddon and then The Fire on the Last Day.

So how do we come to receive God’s blessing in our marriages, and reverse the fall from Grace? The simplest answer to this is found in the Book of Thomas, where the man is told to take the woman back into him again; found for free in the King of kings’ Bible.

Excerpt from Philip’s Gospel: When Eve was in Adam there was no death; but when she was separated from him death came into being. If she go in again, and he take her to himself, death will no longer exist. For this reason a man and woman will leave their parents and cleave one (the woman) to the other (the man) becoming one flesh.

Admittedly this may sound a little esoteric, but it’s really quite simple. The man must first turn from the woman’s advice, really Satan’s through the woman, and get right with God and Christ first, by learning to follow and listen to Them ONLY. Then he will have the divine authority and loving words to reason with and guide the woman, so hopefully she will see, that it is to her best advantage to truly listen and obey him only, whether he is right or wrong in every circumstance, so he does not lose his temper and become violent. If the man is truly striving to follow God and Christ, then grace enters into the relationship, and, if the woman obeys him, peace and harmony naturally follow. A loving, obedient woman is a treasure beyond price. Should the woman wisely choose to obey and follow her husband, then she automatically falls under God’s grace too, thereby also ending all the disharmony and conflict in the marriage, by humbling herself, like the man must humble himself before Christ, she receives God’s blessings through the man, who receives his through the Holy Spirit, given him by Christ. This in turn corrects the divine order of authority given by God, that was previously upset by Satan in The Garden. If the woman wrongly chooses to turn her back on the man’s instruction and correction, then she is right back in The Garden listening to the devil and eating the same old apple again. The proof is in the current conditions found on this planet, of the criminally insane, which we are all a part of. If your ego/self stings a little right now, please know that this is the Truth burning out the lie that Satan placed there. If you truly love God and Christ, then you will learn to do what They say ONLY, otherwise you are really helping the enemy and proving your allegiance to him, which will get you put into The Fire with him on the Last Day.

Matthew 3:10 And now also the axe is laid unto the root of the trees: therefore every tree which bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into The Fire.

Please know that this has worked wonderfully in our marriage, with my wife striving to become a perfect lady and mom, just as I strive to become a real man like Christ Jesus exampled 2,000 years ago, and still does today. Then with the man striving to emulate Christ, seeking to find his way home, while fighting evil in the world as it presents itself, and the woman striving to become a perfect lady and mom, cheering her husband on with words of encouragement, to earn her right to become a man in her next life; they are both learning to do God’s will for them as He intended, so peace and harmony naturally follow, instead of domestic violence.

Thomas 16:2 Jesus said: See, I shall lead her, so that I will make her male, that she too may become a Living spirit, resembling you males. For every woman who makes herself male will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. AMEN

As demonstrated, it is in the woman’s best interest if she learns How to Attract a Real Man and then follows that man, who is striving to be like Christ, just as emulating Christ is best for the man. The humbling of our “selves” makes us open to the divine guidance of God and Christ. Only then can we start to learn from the unspoken word, God’s still small voice of Go(o)dness. Once we start to listen, He begins to show us marvelous spiritual insights, that we could never have been aware of before. It’s a magical mystery tour with Him at the wheel, so you never know where it can take you (John 3:8). When both the man and the woman embrace their roles in the marriage, with God as their focus always, they automatically fit into the divine order, disbarring the discord that previously existed. The man can then rightfully fulfill his role in the relationship, by providing for, protecting and instructing the woman with God’s constant help, endless supply and love. This removes a huge burden from the woman, allowing her the freedom to humbly pursue her God given talents, while learning from the man’s example, which then naturally inspires her to cheer and encourage her husband on to victory, against the evil and injustice so prevalent in the world today.
Following God’s and Christ’s advice (commands) always brings Their blessings and grace into our lives, but only if we choose to follow them and them alone, and learn to do God’s Will for us. You can’t have it both ways, by following after the ways of the world (James 4:4), and then trying to please Father and Christ too.

Mark 12:30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength and serve Him ONLY: this [is] the first COMMANDment.
Matthew 6:24 No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and materialism.
6:33 But seek ye FIRST the Kingdom of God, and His Righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Both “trees” are diametrically opposed and a contradiction, because one way leads to Satan’s realm, death and eternal damnation and one leads to God’s Heavenly and eternal Kingdom on Earth and Life eternal. Yet the free-will choice is yours, as it always has been, so which will you choose (Joshua 24:15). May peace be upon you and within you and may the morning star arise in your heart.

For more information on how to reverse the “fall from grace” please read and digest the “little book” of Revelation 10:7-10, called The Way home or face The Fire by JAH found for free at the link provided. “People are calling it the most important book on Planet Earth, is it, you decide.”

All scriptural references come from The King of kings’ Bible by JAH. For Free online reading please click on the link provided, read the introduction to the end, where you will find the link and may the Hand of God be with you always.

Additional suggested reading on How to Attract a Real Man is available in the book by Lin Paris of the same name at the link provided. A must read for both men and women, in our hopefully humble opinion.